How to Tie a Bow Tie

Tying a bow tie looks difficult, but it uses the same knot as tying your shoelaces. After two or three tries in front of a mirror, it takes less than a minute. Here is how to tie a bow tie, step by step.

Before You Start

Adjust the bow tie to your neck size using the slider, if it has one. Turn up your shirt collar, button the top button and stand in front of a mirror.

The Six Steps

1. Drape the bow tie around your neck, with the left end about 4 centimeters longer than the right.
2. Cross the long end over the short end, then bring it up behind and through the neck loop. Pull to tighten gently.
3. Fold the short end, which now hangs in front, into a bow shape, and hold it horizontally across the collar.
4. Drop the long end down over the middle of that bow shape.
5. Fold the long end back on itself into a second bow shape and push it through the loop behind the front bow.
6. Pull both folded loops gently to tighten, then adjust until the bow is level and even.

A slightly uneven bow is part of the charm of a self-tie bow tie. If you prefer a perfectly neat bow every time, choose a pre-tied style.

Choosing the Right Bow Tie

For a Tuxedo

Black, with a finish that echoes the jacket lapels, is the standard. See our tuxedo bow ties.

For a Suit or a Wedding

Color is welcome: burgundy, navy, red or a color matching the wedding palette. Velvet-look finishes suit winter; satin-look finishes suit evening.

For a 1920s Outfit

Pair the bow tie with a waistcoat and suspenders for an instant Gatsby look. Browse all our bow ties.

Size Matters

A bow tie should be roughly as wide as the outer corners of your eyes and should not extend beyond the edges of your collar. Most of our bow ties have an adjustable band that fits a wide range of necks.